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10 Tips for Great Casual dates

10 Tips for Great Casual dates

 

  1. As a man, if you're thinking of an instant conquest, be aware you'll need to put some effort in first!
  2. Don't expect instant success - what you plant in goodwill will be repaid a thousand times.
  3. Men should treat ladies as potential friends as well as potential lovers and it will pay dividends. They will help you, advise you and strangely you may end up with some very good friends.
  4. Expect to encounter a jungle culture from some people, but that's the internet for you. You may get bruised, get knockbacks and despair, but don't give up!
  5. It takes time, understanding and being a good listener. Men are often said to be ruled by their genitals, ladies are ruled by their heart. Remember it well.
  6. Expect to locate and meet several people, many of whom you may not have chemistry. This is human nature and no reflection on you. The key is to keep looking and the right casual partner will come along.
  7. Photos - Be aware some people will judge you on your photo, some will judge you on your personality. Either way, using the best photo you have is paramount to get the ball rolling, but ensure it’s current!
  8. Realistically expect to find, meet and commence your relationship in about three months. Many are highly skilled and beat this easily and some will give up. Don’t be one of them – take your time.
  9. Constantly review and adapt your profile. If a lady says no after viewing it ask for feedback. They do oblige and often it is quite enlightening that what you thought you said isn't what they read
  10. So don't expect as a man to have women banging on your door for sex it just doesn't work that way. Of course it helps if you’re a lady as you can select. Get a good pic of yourself and be honest in your profile and you'll get on fine.
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